Dear Kisha, pls i need your advise and that of bv’s(blog visitors).
I’m married with a 16 weeks old baby. I did my traditional marriage since November 2015 but we are yet to do our church wedding. I wont say is money that is holding my husband from taking me to the alter because i know he has the money for wedding if he really wants to wed me.
My husband is very hot tempered, one cannot discuss or argue with him without it resulting to a fight. He is a he goat, he has dated a girl that was living in the same compound with us, he toasts my friends as well…
The one he did that nearly made me leave the marriage was when he tried sleeping with my 9 yr old sister that came to help me baby sit my baby last month, a girl that is still sucking her finger..God!
My sister told me but i pretended my sis did not tell me anything for peace to reign. I dare not touch his phone.
I just found out that he’s having or trying to have an affair with our house helps sister. I over heard them talking on the phone, i politely asked him and he started insulting me as usual telling me he will never WED me, this is not his first time of threatening me with such word.
He said he has gotten what he wants from me which i guess should be a child. I’m in tears as i type this. I came from a broken home, i dont want my child to experience such.
He also beats me. We live more like flatmates. We dont play or attend events together except his village burial. He doesnt even display my picture or that of his son on his social media, he has refused to accept my request on face book. I think i’m married to my self.
He doesnt give me money for upkeep, our sex life is so boring! No cuddling , he just goes straight to the point. I’m so confused because of my child. I dont know what to do.
This is serious, please i beg on my fellow silent readers, your advice is highly needed. Please do not keep quiet… Thank you
*Madam you dont have a husband oh,you are married to yourself..
So with all what you profiled there you are still crying that this man has not wedded you?you should be celebrating,abi you need some slaps to reset your brain?
It is better to be single than to be married to the kind of man you described up there….. And if your child is a girl then sleep with your two eyes open and dont let him go near her without supervision.
You still make love with him?*pukes*
I hope in Heavens name that you have a plan B?